Top 10 Fantasies Couples Want to Try (And How to Start)

Top 10 Fantasies Couples Want to Try (And How to Start)

Ever wondered what fantasies other couples are exploring behind closed doors? Fantasies are a natural and exciting way to spice up your love life, but figuring out how to approach them can feel tricky. As a 21-year-old Indian girl (and your trusted sexual wellness expert), I’m here to share the top 10 fantasies couples want to try and practical tips on how to bring them to life. Let’s dive in!


1. Roleplay

Pretending to be someone else can add an element of mystery and excitement. From teacher-student to doctor-patient, the possibilities are endless.
How to Start:

  • Discuss roles that excite both of you.
  • Start with simple costumes or scenarios.

Pro Tip: Use a fun prop or toy from Sangya to enhance the experience.


2. Power Dynamics

Exploring dominance and submission is about trust and letting go. It’s not just about control—it’s about connection.
How to Start:

  • Establish clear boundaries and safe words.
  • Start with light restraint or playful commands.

3. Voyeurism/Exhibitionism

This fantasy is about being watched or watching, adding a thrill to intimacy.
How to Start:

  • Try undressing in front of a mirror or setting up a private show.
  • Make sure both partners feel comfortable and safe.

4. Public Adventures

The idea of being intimate in a semi-public setting adds a sense of risk and excitement.
How to Start:

  • Begin with discreet gestures, like whispering fantasies in public.
  • Stick to private locations like a parked car or a secluded spot.

5. Food Play

Using food during foreplay adds fun and sensuality. Chocolate is always a winner!
How to Start:

  • Melt a bar of The Coco Love and use it as edible body paint.
  • Focus on feeding each other treats to build intimacy.


6. BDSM Light

Beginner BDSM is about exploring sensations, like light spanking or tickling.
How to Start:

  • Try sensory toys like feather ticklers or silk restraints.
  • Communicate openly about comfort levels.

7. Threesome Fantasies

One of the most popular fantasies, though not everyone wants to act on it.
How to Start:

  • Discuss whether this is a real desire or just a fantasy.
  • Roleplay the scenario before involving a third person.

8. Dirty Talk

Talking explicitly during intimacy can heighten excitement and build anticipation.
How to Start:

  • Start with light, playful phrases to test comfort levels.
  • Compliment your partner or describe what you want to do.

9. Sensory Deprivation

Blindfolds or noise-canceling headphones make sensations more intense.
How to Start:

  • Use a blindfold and focus on touch, smell, and taste.
  • Include a surprise element, like offering a bite of The Coco Love.

10. Fantasy Stories

Recreating scenes from books or movies can be thrilling.
How to Start:

  • Read a sensual story together and discuss which parts excite you.
  • Act out scenes that resonate with both partners.

How to Approach Fantasies

  • Start the Conversation: Use casual language, like “I read about this—what do you think?”
  • Respect Boundaries: Not all fantasies need to be acted on; some are just fun to imagine.
  • Make It Playful: Treat the experience as an adventure rather than a performance.

Pro Tip: Including a sensual treat like The Coco Love can help set a relaxed, romantic mood for these conversations.


The Sweet Takeaway

Exploring fantasies is about enhancing intimacy, building trust, and having fun together. Whether you’re experimenting with roleplay, food play, or something more adventurous, the key is open communication and mutual consent.

Ready to turn your fantasies into reality? Start small, stay safe, and don’t forget the chocolate—The Coco Love makes every intimate moment even sweeter.

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Hey! I’m your 21-year-old sexual wellness expert from India

Aditi Kapoor

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